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Designing To Stay: A Practical Guide To Remodeling For Aging In Place

Written by Alexa Lerner | Jul 14, 2026 4:59:59 PM

Thoughtful Updates That Let You Enjoy The Home You Love For Years To Come

The home you love doesn’t have to be a home you eventually leave. With some thoughtful planning, the house where you raised a family, built a garden, or simply settled in over the years can keep working for you at every stage of life. Remodeling for accessibility isn’t about giving something up — it’s about designing a home that lets you stay exactly where you want to be, for as long as you want to be there.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention describes aging in place as the ability to live in one’s home and community safely, independently, and comfortably, regardless of age, income, or physical ability, and it’s clearly something people want. According to AARP’s most recent Home and Community Preferences Survey, roughly three out of four adults over 50 want to remain in their current home as they age. The best way to make that possible is to build accessibility into your home now, on your own timeline, so your house keeps up with you rather than the other way around.

The design principles behind this kind of remodeling are known as Universal Design — an approach that makes a home more comfortable and easier to live in for everyone, regardless of age, physical ability, or stature. Applied well, Universal Design doesn’t announce itself: grab bars now come in finishes that coordinate with your other bathroom hardware instead of looking institutional, and a curbless shower can look like a spa upgrade. Done well, these updates make a home better for the whole family today, and ready for whatever comes next.

At Meridian Homes, we love helping clients plan for this. We’ve guided homeowners through everything from a single accessible bathroom to full additions built around the way a family wants to live for decades to come, working alongside architects, occupational therapists, and clients themselves to get the details right. The recommendations below reflect what we’ve learned on those projects, organized by room and by system, so you can build a plan that fits your home and your goals.

Planning Your Home's Layout

Layout comes first: how your home is organized, where you sleep, how easily you move between rooms, and how much of your daily life can happen on one level do more for long-term comfort than any finish or fixture you’ll choose later.

One-Level Living

A primary bedroom and full bathroom on the main level removes stairs from your daily routine and keeps you close to the rooms you use most: kitchen, family room, laundry. If your home doesn’t currently have main-level rooms like these, consider a remodel or addition that creates flexible space now, such as a home office or guest room, designed so it can convert into a primary suite later, when you need it.

Making Multiple Levels Work

Not every lot or floor plan allows for one-level living, and that’s fine. A few thoughtful additions can make multiple levels work well for years to come. An elevator or a chair lift can be added without a major structural overhaul, and both are worth planning for even if you install them later. In the meantime, sturdy handrails on both sides of every stairway and strong color contrast between treads, risers, and landings make stairs easier and more comfortable to use for everyone in the household.

An Open, Connected Floor Plan

Open floor plans give you room to move through common areas without tight turns or narrow pinch points, which matters more as mobility changes. If your current layout is broken into small, separated rooms, ask your builder what it would take to open things up: removing a non-structural wall is often more straightforward than homeowners expect. Clearing out excess furniture and clutter is a lower-cost step that delivers some of the same benefit right away.

Kitchen

The kitchen sees more daily use than almost any other room in the house, which makes it one of the highest-value places to invest in accessible design. Evaluate your current kitchen against the recommendations below and prioritize the changes that address your specific routine.

Layout and Workflow

Leave enough open floor space to move comfortably, whether on your own, with a cane or walker, or in a wheelchair. Keep your sink, cooktop, and refrigerator arranged in a practical triangle so meal prep doesn’t require unnecessary trips across the room.

Countertops

Countertops set at more than one height let you work seated or standing. Rounded edges reduce injury from bumps, and a low-maintenance surface (quartz and solid surface are common choices) cuts down on daily upkeep.

Cabinetry

Pull-out drawers in base cabinets are easier to see and reach into than swinging doors. Upper cabinets are more usable with adjustable or pull-down shelving and mounting them a few inches lower than standard height brings everything within easier reach. Glass fronts let you see what’s inside without opening a door, and oversized pulls or touch-release hardware are easier to operate than small knobs.

Dishwasher

Raising a standard dishwasher on a short platform reduces how far you have to bend to load and unload it. Drawer-style dishwashers are another option: they sit at a more accessible height and let you run a partial load without waiting to fill the whole unit.

Cooking Appliances

Wall ovens should sit at a height that’s easy to reach with the door open, with a heat-resistant landing spot nearby for hot dishes. A microwave installed in a base cabinet, or a drawer-style model, avoids reaching overhead for hot food. If you’re adding a warming drawer, it can go in a base cabinet, an island, or beneath a cooktop; these units are electric and don’t require special venting, but do plan for adequate circuit capacity. For the cooktop itself, front-mounted controls and open knee space underneath make it usable from a seated position, and an electric or induction surface avoids the open flame of gas. A pot filler above the cooktop eliminates carrying full pots from the sink.

Refrigeration

Side-by-side refrigerator and freezer units have narrower, lighter doors than a standard fridge and both compartments are within reach from a seated or standing position. Long, continuous door handles are easier to grip than short pulls. Under-counter refrigerator and freezer drawers are a good alternative where a full-size side-by-side doesn’t fit the layout.

Sink and Faucet

An open knee space beneath the sink, or a motorized sink that adjusts height, extends access to wheelchair users, while a shallower basin with a pull-out sprayer cuts down on bending and reaching. Touchless faucets, hands-free soap dispensers, and anti-scald devices round things out with everyday convenience and extra protection against burns.

Flooring

Textured, slip-resistant flooring is worth prioritizing in the kitchen, even if you choose something different elsewhere in the house. Good traction keeps the space comfortable to move through, whatever you’re doing there. Keep the material consistent across the whole kitchen and install flush thresholds at entry points for a smoother transition between rooms.

Lighting

Prioritize task lighting over the areas where you actually work (the counters, the sink, the cooktop), since general ceiling light alone tends to leave shadows exactly where you need to see best. Under-cabinet or toe-kick fixtures light up counters and floors without adding glare, and a window, where possible, adds daylight to the mix.

Bathroom

Bathrooms combine water, hard surfaces, and tight quarters, which makes small design choices especially worthwhile here. Use the checklist below to see where a few updates could make your bathroom more comfortable to use for years to come.

Showers

A stand-alone shower with a curbless, walk-in entry removes the step-over hazard of a traditional shower pan and works whether you’re walking, using a cane, or rolling in. Add a built-in or fold-down bench and grab bars positioned for real use, not just code compliance.

Bathtubs

If you want to keep a tub, a free-standing model with a step-through door and a watertight seal is more accessible than climbing over a traditional tub wall; some come with built-in seats or jets. Where space only allows for a shower-tub combination, glass doors are safer than a curtain, and grab bars are still worth adding.

Showerheads and Faucets

A removable, extendable showerhead lets you rinse yourself and clean the shower or tub without needing full mobility to reach every corner. Lever handles are easier to operate than knobs for the sink, shower, and tub, and a touchless faucet is a good option for the sink.

Anti-Scald Protection

Anti-scald valves on every bathroom fixture keep water temperature within a safe, comfortable range automatically, smoothing out the sudden spikes that can happen when a toilet flushes or a dishwasher runs elsewhere in the house. Thermostatic and pressure-balancing valves are the two most common options, and either one is a straightforward addition during a plumbing update. It’s a simple upgrade that adds real convenience and peace of mind for everyone who uses the space.

Toilets

A comfort-height toilet (taller than a standard model) or a height-extension adaptor makes sitting down and standing up easier. Some models add automated flushing or heated seats, which are conveniences rather than necessities but worth considering.

Vanities and Sinks

Vanity height involves a real trade-off: a higher vanity means less bending for someone standing, while a lower, open-underneath vanity or wall-mounted sink works better from a seated position. Think through who will use this bathroom, and when, before settling on a height.

Storage and Medicine Cabinets

Plan for enough cabinet space to keep medications and toiletries organized and accessible. Glass-fronted cabinets make it easy to see what’s inside, and lever-style handles are simpler to operate than knobs.

Flooring

Ceramic and porcelain tile are durable but can be slippery when wet, so look for a matte or textured finish rather than a glossy one. Smaller tiles have more grout lines, which adds traction; an anti-slip coating adds another layer of protection, and a slatted wood floor insert inside the shower itself is worth considering. If you use a bathmat, secure it with double-sided tape so it can’t slide.

Lighting

Vanity lighting should come from the sides as well as from above, to avoid the shadows that overhead-only fixtures cast on the face, which helps with grooming tasks at any age. Because eyes generally need more light to see clearly as they age, dimmable fixtures are worth building in: dial the brightness up for shaving or applying makeup, then back down for everyday use. A low-level night light or motion-sensor fixture makes middle-of-the-night trips safer without requiring you to turn on the main lights.

Flooring Throughout The Home

Smooth, consistent flooring across each level of the home makes it easy to move from room to room without a second thought. Choosing the same material throughout, or a similar low-profile one, cuts down on the number of transitions you have to navigate. High-pile carpet and area rugs are worth avoiding since they can catch a foot or a wheel. Flush thresholds between rooms round out the effect, keeping footing and sightlines consistent as you move through the house.

Lighting Design For Every Room

Good lighting throughout the house does double duty: it prevents accidents and reduces eye strain. The most reliable approach layers three types of light: ambient (overhead, general-purpose), task (focused on a specific activity, like reading or cooking), and accent (highlighting a space without adding brightness, such as under a cabinet or along a staircase). No single fixture does all three jobs well, which is why most rooms benefit from more than one light source.

For switches, illuminated rocker-style controls are easier to locate and operate than a standard toggle, and placing them within reach of someone standing or seated makes a real difference. Motion-sensor switches that turn on automatically when you enter a room, and off when you leave, add both convenience and energy savings, and they’re especially useful in hallways and stairwells, where a motion sensor means you’re never searching for a switch in the dark.

Hallways And Doorways

Standard doorways and hallways in most existing homes are narrower than what a wheelchair or mobility scooter needs to pass through comfortably. Current accessibility guidelines call for a minimum clear doorway width of 32 inches (typically achieved with a 36-inch door) and hallways at least 36 inches wide; where your floor plan allows it, 42 to 48 inches gives enough room to turn a wheelchair fully around, a meaningful upgrade over the bare minimum. Talk through these measurements with your builder early in the planning process, since widening a doorway after the walls are finished is far more disruptive than accounting for it up front.

Pocket doors are worth considering wherever you’re remodeling. They tuck away into the wall instead of swinging into the room which frees up floor space, and are easier to operate than a standard swinging door. On any door you keep, replacing round knobs with lever handles makes it easier to open for anyone with limited grip strength.

Home Automation And Smart Safety Technology

Smart home technology has become a practical tool for aging in place rather than a novelty. Reliable WiFi coverage in every room is the foundation, since voice-activated assistants that control lights, shades, and temperature aren’t much help if the connection drops in the bedroom or basement. Smart locks and security cameras that can be checked and controlled from a phone or tablet add convenience without requiring a trip to the door, and sensors that quietly keep an eye on daily activity can reach out to a family member if something seems off. Reminder systems for medications are another increasingly common addition. AARP’s most recent survey found that roughly two-thirds of adults 50 and older expect to add a medical alert system as they age, and nearly half plan to add smart security features.

Exterior And Entries

A no-step entry at both the front and rear of the home is the ideal design standard, achievable on most properties by grading the walkway to meet the door directly. Where the grade doesn’t allow it, a ramp is the alternative, and handrails on both sides of any remaining steps add extra security. Steps and walkways should also be graded for drainage, so water doesn’t pool and freeze into a slick spot, and the threshold into the home should be no higher than half an inch. A covered entry rounds things out, protecting you from the weather while you unlock the door.

Walkways should be wide, smooth, and free of uneven pavement, with bushes and trees trimmed back so they don’t crowd the path. Lighting above and around every entrance, along walkways, and at the corners of the house adds both visibility and security, especially with motion-sensor fixtures that turn on automatically as you approach.

Start With A Plan

Not every homeowner can tackle every upgrade at once, and that’s fine, since budget and timing constraints are often unavoidable. What matters most is having an overall plan from the start, even if the work happens in phases over several years. A kitchen remodel now and a bathroom update later will fit together far better if both are mapped out as part of the same long-term vision, rather than each treated as its own separate project. For a broader look at what to expect along the way, from initial planning through construction, download our Home Remodeling Guide, which walks through the process step-by-step so you know what’s ahead no matter how you choose to phase your project.

At Meridian Homes, we specialize in luxury remodeling and custom home building in the Washington, DC area. Our mission is to create exceptional residences that exceed expectations. Our highly personalized design process and careful management of every project have earned us a reputation over many years for outstanding client service and solid, beautiful craftsmanship. Contact us today to begin your custom home or remodeling project.